|Evie Lovelle, photo by Amanda Brooks|
Continuing our "Won't Get Fooled Again" April, words of wisdom from a striptease artist. One of my performer friends in the Burlesque world, Evie Lovelle recently posted on Facebook:
If it's your livelihood, make sure it's sustainable, if it's an adventure, make sure it's actually fun.
For many of us in the arts, it is our goal to make our adventure our livelihood. Sustainable fun. I believe one possible path to this is an unrelenting pursuit of what I call the joie. What does it mean in the context of "Won't Get Fooled Again?"
If it hurts, something is wrong. If your pursuit is draining your resources without contributing anything back; if it has become a joyless drudgery, it's time to make a change. At the very least, you owe it to yourself to take a breather and assess your situation. Eat a good meal, take a long walk, and reapproach what you're doing -- including and especially your relationships -- with fresh eyes. There's no shame in cutting bait and walking away.
Don't let other people suck all the joie out of your life and your art.